1. “I don’t want to join your team because there aren’t a lot of girls.” When joining an FRC team, anyone and everyone is welcome to join despite the number of people that you have matching genders with. I constantly hear females coming up to me telling me that they joined the team at the school down the street because there were “No girls on the team here.” And of course my very pointed and suggestive response is always “If there are not any girls, you joining the other team is not fixing the issue.” 2. “So do you guys have anything that isn’t building? Like, what are the girls supposed to do? “ There is nothing the girls are supposed to do. I find that a majority of girls in FRC teams tend to end up doing the background work (i.e. Marketing, recruiting, fundraising etc.). Many of them enjoy the work but some of them state that it is something “all the girls do.” 3. “She can’t drive, women are horrible drivers.” Not only is this sexist, but it takes away from the inclusiveness of the word team. I hear this one most often from veteran members that are both male and female who are used to having an all-male drive team due to that one stereotype. 4. “You’re the vice president/captain? You’re a girl though, that doesn’t make sense.” I have personally experienced this comment after earning the title of Vice President of my former team. I sometimes hear snickers around me in the audience about how confused they are when they see a female on the field during alliance selections. A captain is a captain. A leader is a leader. Gender should not play a part in who gets to be what. 5. “I’m the only girl on the team. I should get an award.” No one deserves an award just because they “showed up.” Someone deserves an award because of their dedication to the team’s success and commitment to the team. There are a surprising amount of females I have encountered inside and outside of the FRC community who truly believe that being the only female of the team automatically makes them better than other girls. The reason why I wrote this post was to raise awareness about how even females force themselves into stereotypes and sometimes make the STEM community a non-inclusive place. As a female, I believe that other females and males need to make sure that the FRC/STEM community shows diversity both through gender, age race and etc. There is nothing more degrading to a human being than to have them be discriminated against over something they cannot control. This blog was written by Michelle Le. If you are interested in blogging forFIRST Ladies, sign up on the schedule.
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Very well worded and very relatable. Number 3 reminded me of when we went to the Central Valley Regional and a volunteer said hi to me as I set up our driver station and after the match he walked by again as I was putting the driver station away and said, "Oh YOU're the driver?? I wouldn't have expected that!!!!" Like ummm why not??
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Brian Johnson
7/12/2015 04:03:26 am
We all need to think about what we say to and about girls in FIRST. Two seasons ago our team was all girls. We went to a competition in a nearby region and made it into the finals. As the teams were taking the field for the 1st finals match the MC said "isn't it wonderful to see a great all-girl team make it to the final rounds." Our girls got kind of angry expressions which surprised me because I thought it was a nice thing to say. But afterwards they said they were offended because they didn't want to be seen as a good "girl" team, they wanted to be seen as a good team. And to point out "how nice it is" to see a team of girls do well implied that we shouldn't expect a team of girls to do well because they are girls. We need to be aware that what we say isn't always taken the way we intend.
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Norton
7/21/2015 04:23:44 am
While the gist of this blog post is good, it has a very confrontational tone that I don't think is helpful. The post comes across as though you have a chip on your shoulder about the attitudes you get from people about being a girl on a robotics team.
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Michelle Le
8/4/2015 04:43:23 am
Thank you for the feedback. I will keep your feedback in mind when speaking to others about this subject as well as in future blog posts.
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